While that's melting, put all of the other ingredients into the medium bowl: powdered erythritol or sugar, cream cheese, milk, butter, cocoa powder, and 1.5 tsp vanilla extract
12 oz powdered sugar or powdered erythritol, 8 oz cream cheese, ½ cup whole (3.5%) milk, 2 oz butter, 2 oz cocoa powder, 1-½ tsp vanilla extract